As I finally begin to settle down, I want to talk about how thus far, the seduction community is ultimately, a failure. If you really stop and think, something just doesn't sit right. Here we have a countless number of frustrated men, and a countless number of single BBW, yet even with all of the seduction training that many of these men have went through, the two still aren't pairing up. Men are still sexless, and busty women are still single. Is it because chubby women have it out for men? No, women endlessly complain about not being able to find a decent man. Then is it because these mystical "alpha" males are really fucking 90% of the women? No, most women can smell a player from a mile away by the time they're in their early twenties. They're smarter than guys think they are, and really, the only way to play a woman, is if she is already strongly emotionally attached to you, and she ignores the game playing because she is too invested in the relationship. Most women will sniff out players before they even get to the point where they're emotionally invested, which is about the same point where they have sex.
1. Intro
2. Why single men and BBW aren't pairing up
I'll tell you why there is this huge anomaly with why single men and single BBW aren't pairing up. Plain and simple, it's because pop culture and the seduction community paints women as these easy, sex crazed bimbos. In turn, men believe it, and strategize their courtship of women based around them being easy to seduce and have sex with. In essence, the seduction community and pop culture makes chubby women out to be having all kinds of short term sexual affairs, and joyfully ignoring their evolutionary wiring that tells them to seek out a dedicated mate, all the while they openly share these alpha male types with numerous other busty women.
3. BBW Seduction Products
Almost all of the seduction products are based around the above. The seduction community has portrayed BBW as being wired the same way men are wired, instead of women who occasionally behave the way that men do. It has portrayed women having sex soon and quickly going out on dates with unfamiliar men soon, as the rule, instead of it being the occasional exception to the rule. Fact of the matter is that oversized women are not wired to just emotionally bond with you after one night, be comfortable enough to go out on a date with you after only talking to you once or twice, and have sex with you after one or two meetings.
4. Social Media About BBW
What the media and the seduction community has men doing, is going out night after night, trying to hit the lottery, hoping some curvy woman goes against her wiring and quickly places herself in a situation where either random sex with a stranger is going to occur, or she is going to throw her safety and personal comfort out of the window and agree to quickly go out on a date with a guy that she isn't all that familiar with. Are there men who easily sleep with hundreds of BBW very soon? Yes. However, their results are grossly misrepresented. Seduction community gurus are the equivalent of Al Capone/Scarface; it looks really easy to do, but no one looks at the reality of it.
5. Dating Guru Myths
Almost every guru claiming to sleep with hundreds of BBW have cleverly embedded themselves in very rare places where women have a propensity to quickly sleep with men. These include places where there are high concentrations of desperate unattractive or mature BBW, women on vacation, poverty stricken women, women in the sex industry, women on drugs like cocaine, and women living in a transient environment. These plus size women are presented as the norm by such gurus, while the average everyday attractive woman is nothing like the above. Do women want and enjoy sex? Absolutely. However, not in the way that the seduction community presents it. Women want and enjoy sex with long term partners; not some random guy in a bar. And this is precisely why men are finding it so difficult to secure any kind of date or sexual encounter with single busty women; why phone numbers seem to go nowhere. Men simply don't get it.
6. Building a relationship with BBW
BBW want to meet men that they feel are going to be in it for the long haul for obvious reasons (rearing children). What this means for a curvy woman is that the guy she is eventually going to have sex with is going to make their first interaction feel like a unique one, and not some contrived copy/paste scheme; he is going to take his time actually building a relationship and making sure that he doesn't try to force the pacing in which it is built, thus placing her comfort first and foremost; and more importantly, he isn't going to try to rush sexual intercourse.
7. Conclusion
It may not make any sense if you're a guy, but it doesn't have to. You are not wired like a chubby woman. You're wired to speed things along. However, women are wired to take their time with the progression of becoming involved with someone. And this is the ultimate failure of the seduction community. It leads you to believe that the everyday BBW are as eager to sleep with you as you are them. The vast majority of women want to build monogamous relationships before having sex, and that is not something that occurs over night. It takes time, it takes patience, and it takes dedication.